1. You Can Be Yourself Around Him
We’ve all been in relationships with guys who we’re not totally comfortable around. Guys who we feel like we have to “perform” or be “on” in front of in order to make the relationship work.
Your future husband won’t care whether you’re “on” or not on any given day. He’ll love you for who you are – when you’re just being yourself and not putting on any kind of show – and he won’t ever want to let that person go.
2. Your Romantic Ideas Are Compatible
Some people think that delivery pizza and Netflix under a blanket is the height of romance. Others go the whole 9 yards with long moonlit walks on the beach and flowers.
Whatever your ideas about romance are, he’s tapped into them and feels the same way. Even going to the grocery store with each other can be romantic if you’re both on the same wavelength.
3. After Terrible Days You Just Want To Be With Him
Even if you’re in the worst mood in the world, being with him is better than being alone.
He’s there to listen to you when you have something you need to get off your chest, and to really listen and grasp the meaning of what you’re trying to say. He’ll always respond honestly, and knows what to say to make you feel better.
4. He Really Listens To What You Have To Say
He doesn’t just respond “Uh huh…” or “Yeah…” when you’re talking to him – he really pays attention and thinks about what you’re telling him.
He can hear what you’re really trying to tell him, even if you’re talking about something different, and can communicate with you clearly, effectively, and empathetically. You don’t have to explain yourself with him – he just knows.
5. He’s Happy When You’re Happy, Plus The Other Way Around
You know you’ve found someone truly special when they’re not just willing, but eager to sacrifice a little bit of their own happiness if it means making you happy.
Finding the person who genuinely takes joy from your happiness is one of the greatest things in life. And what makes it even better is when you are also able to take joy from their happiness, and give to each other selflessly and without restraint.
6. You Want To Share Your Whole Life With Them
Every time you think about what’s going to happen in the future, and how the rest of your life is going to play out, your partner is always